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Officer Griffiths wife Cynthia, with their children (l-r) Mathew, Emily, Leah, and Ashley. B obby Griffith, 40, has been a patrol officer with Gilroy Police Department since 2006. Working the graveyard shift—typically 9 p.m. to 7 a.m.—allows him to spend time with his family: wife Cynthia, and children Ashley, 19, Mathew, 16, Emily, 10, and Leah, 5. Though he’s found family and career success, Oklahoma-born Griffith is the first to admit to struggles; he was teased as a child for wearing glasses and couldn’t focus when it came to academics, which led him to enroll in special education classes beginning in grade school. He later realized he had Attention Deficit Disorder. “When we moved to California, the schools were behind compared to Oklahoma,” Griffith said. “When I registered (at Watsonville High School), I was put in regular classes. The classes were a little more my speed and I was able to catch up.” While still in high school, Griffith decided he’d join the military and took the Army entrance exam. Though he passed, he didn’t score high enough to pursue his hopes of working with planes as a pilot or mechanic. He chose not to join infantry; instead signing up for an elective criminal justice class at WHS—a class that led him to a path he’d never considered. “I got all A’s in that class,” Griffith said. “I remember the teacher (Bob Martin) said, ‘You’re going to be a cop someday.’ When he said that, the light clicked on.” After graduation, he joined his friend, George Zamora, in the Explorers Program at the Watsonville Police Department (WPD) to learn about the profession. Griffith was also recruited to play football for Cabrillo College, which he did while taking further criminal justice courses. Following a two-year football stint at Cabrillo—he didn’t earn enough credits to graduate—Griffith joined the Police Academy at Evergreen Valley College in San Jose. He was sponsored by WPD, which paid for portions of his training. With support from his parents, a hospital security job, and Cynthia, he graduated and was hired by WPD, where he worked for 11 years. In 2006 he joined the Gilroy Police Department (GPD), a move that offered better pay and a more affordable area to live at the time. “Leaving Watsonville was hard because (WPD) did so much for me,” he said. “But as a father and husband, I have to do what’s best for my family. Every decision I’ve made as a cop has been for my family.” Griffith met his wife Cynthia through their mutual friend, Zamora, in 1994. “With Cynthia it was natural,” Griffith said. “In my head I was like, ‘I love this girl.’” Eighteen years of marriage and four children later, Cynthia Griffith said her husband is “a great father to his children. Being a police officer and also being a father, he is protective yet loving.” Bobby Griffith—who helped coach Gilroy High School football until this school year—is now pursuing a degree in Criminal Justice Administration through Columbia Southern University. In February, he was accepted into GPD’s mounted unit G M H T O D A Y M A G A Z I N E MAY / JUNE 2015 and hopes to be certified with his horse, Rojan, in time for the Gilroy Garlic Festival in July. “When I was in Watsonville, Gilroy would need help with the festival, so we’d come and work,” he said. “I saw the mounted unit and thought, ‘That’s what I want to do.’” Griffith boards Rojan at a ranch in Hollister. He’s found that working with Rojan helps him to relieve stress. He also learned about controlling stress from WPD officers during his Explorers training. “They said, ‘Don’t bring your work home.’ What works for me is I pray and release it.” Griffith has also learned to take note of his intuition and he wants the next generation of officers to understand that police work is a balancing act. “Younger guys think they can’t let their guard down, but you have to,” he said. “You have to relax and be human. But when those little hairs stand up on the back of your neck, something’s going on.” Griffith—who hopes to retire in about 10 years— will continue to serve his community and offer encouragement to Gilroy’s youth. “If I can reach a kid who is like me, who is struggling like I was, then it’s worth it,” Griffith said. Offering advice to kids interested in law enforcement: “Do ride- alongs, do Explorers, do your homework on the profession. And if it’s a calling, it’s a calling. You can’t change that.” gmhtoday.com 83